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She transformed herself from mouse to powerhouse, now she helps others achieve their goals. V has told CM that tomorrow is a big day for her. It’s the day the V is having an interview with her boss to see if V will get to head a big project that’s coming up. If V gets to head this project it will mean a pay raise and it will put her in line for future projects. V has made a point of telling CM that she’s going to make sure she gets a good night’s sleep so she’ll be well-rested and fresh in the morning. At 3 AM V’s phone rings. CM is on the other end. CM is all apologies but CM needs V to help her with a problem. It could be anything from a relationship issue to needing a ride from the club because CM’s had too much to drink and doesn’t have cab fare. It really doesn’t matter what the excuse for the call is, the reality is that it has served its purpose. V’s sleep has been disrupted and V will not be at her best when she goes to that meeting with her boss. V’s failure to land the project leader position will be negative energy that will feed CM. If at some point V should have the nerve to say something to CM about her ruining V’s chances at the project leader position, CM will most likely come right back with something like, “It’s your own fault. I mean if you hadn’t answered the phone I’d have called someone else.” If you have a Crazymaker in your life the best thing you can do for yourself is to acknowledge the problem and then seek help. Whether you read a book by an expert in co-dependency or you find help through a professional counselor, get help because it’s either find help or plan on this Crazymaker running your life.